All I want but on the West Coast?!?

There's a new Juan in my life. Make a wish... will it come true? It's one of those wait and see kind of things.

What do I want in a relationship? What is my ideal? I don't have a dream guy per say. I've been more focused on who I want to be and how I want to feel in a relationship. What kind of dynamic do I wish for? What do I wish for my world to look like? These are the questions I want to define answers for.

""It requires two unambivalent people -- people who don't need that merging to feel secure. You know the person is with you and don't have to prove it." I want to be involved in a partnership where the mutual trust is so strong that we just know deep down in our souls that we have someone who's going to has each other's best interests in mind. I want to be someone dedicated to not only my own personal development, but also supportive of the development of those around me. That is my true ideal romantic relationship. I want my freedom and sense of individuality maintained. I want laughter, delight, and wonder to be part of my daily life. I want to experience obstacles and have experience the exhiliration of achievement and not pain too long when failure comes along. Overall, I want to be reverent in the fact that I'm human --that I'm blessed with the ability to sense my surroundings, create an inner life, forever evolve and adapt, and most importantly, love.

During a salsa workshop he was giving, Eugene once said that it is important that within a dance, both the leader and follower maintain their own center and when moving together try not to knock each other off balance. I think overall that's wonderful advice for any relationship in life.